Rejection often leads to revenge

As boys grow up into men, they will have experienced rejection countless times: on the football field in the form of choked plays and losses, in dating, during fights after school where they get their clocks cleaned, etc.

Boys generally aren’t coddled by their parents too much, and especially by their Dads. They fall down or get pushed down, and are told to get up and “suck it up.”

Most girls, on the other hand get treated differently– especially by their fathers. “Daddy’s girl” sounds sweet and innocent, however it can be detrimental to raising a woman who’s capable of facing the real world.

“Daddy’s girls” too often automatically become entitlement princesses, which turns them into the ultimate biotch. The problem is, they’ve never learned how to deal with rejection or consequences in a healthy way.

These women are the ones who, when hurt, will seek out revenge because they don’t know how to deal with their emotional pain in any other way. And when they don’t get what they want? – Watch out. The saying, “Hell hath no fury like a scorned woman” wasn’t created out of thin air.

Fast forward to marriages. Why do you think the conventional wisdom of a man just saying, “Yes, dear” to her is so prevalent? It’s because many women are unable to deal with conflict at all. So instead of living in a toxic atmosphere, men will simply just their mouths to avoid the discomfort of conflict with these women.

So guess what happens when these women get rejected and hurt (and they all do)? They are ripe for going dirty in their needs for revenge. These are the women who make a public scene, spread false rumors, mock your manhood, slash tires, or otherwise vandalize a guy’s car, or who hatch nasty plots to get back at the men who hurt them.

Think back to the movie, Fatal Attraction. What’s driving the psychotic behavior of actress Glenn Close? One word: rejection. In the extreme, these women will think, “If I can’t have you, nobody else can, either.”

Revenge-minded women seek your misery in order to soothe their pain. Just look at the lyrics in the popular song by Carrie Underwood, Before He Cheats:

“I dug my key into the side

Of his pretty little souped-up 4 wheel drive

Carved my name into his leather seat

I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights

Slashed a hole in all 4 tires

And maybe next time he’ll think before he cheats”

What’s the source of this unlawful, unethical, and crazy behavior? Again, it’s rejection. Which leads to her need for such revenge. The only way for her to feel better is for the man that hurt her to feel worse.

Here’s the simple formula:

Warning flags that you’re dating a woman capable of doing you harm
You’re too afraid to stand up to her because of her outbursts; the thought of getting rid of her or divorcing her sends chills up your spine; she flies off the handle when she doesn’t get her way.

There’s no fixing them, no reasoning with them, or repairing them via marriage or counseling 99% of the time. Some do one day realize their crazy ways, but it’s extremely rare. There are too many women out there that aren’t this way to waste your time dealing with those that are. Cut your losses, and allow her to move onto her next unsuspecting victim.

Bonus tip: There’s no good way to dump a crazy girl. So do it as you would in peeling off a band aid: discard quickly and do not look back. Any interaction past the breakup will never be good.

Bonus tip #2: Does she fly off the handle easily regarding her friends, family, or her exes? Well, you’re next (if you haven’t figured that out already).

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4 Responses

  1. carolyn fostet says:

    A woman that worked with my husband wanted him. He rejected her. Now she is telling me and everyone they had an affair. He says its a lie. But she is using everything she ever heard him say against him and its killing me.

  2. J.S. says:

    I live in the bible belt.

    My mom used to always tell me not to mix business and pleasure. I took her advice.

    And because of it, I’ve lost a few jobs because I wasn’t forthcoming. Rejection of course can sometimes be perceived as such, by ones mere refusal to play.

    One time I tried to file a sexual harassment claim for unemployment. You should have seen the looks from the people in the office I explained the situation.

    They quickly told me they normally take complaints from women. I said, ‘ok, but if the woman is the boss, or the daughter of the boss. Or has friends in high places.’ And is convinced she deserves you, so you must be gay, an asshole or some other sort that she doesn’t want to see every day.

    They didn’t seem to have an answer for that one.

    I’ll admit there are some men in high places that are disgusting and have a sense of entitlement whenever something in a short skirt walks by. Some women are easily their equal or worse in similar situations. To suggest that men are the only problem in relation to the sexes is nothing more than feminist garbage. It, like so many other things has wrecked the healthy masculine/feminine dynamic in this country and created a situation where men and women are not complimentary, but are adversaries in a game that nobody wins. One is best served by staying as far away from such people as possible.

    As in my case, no matter what you do sometimes it’s damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

  3. J.P says:

    I have been living this situation with a crazy woman like this for years. I havent been able to get rid of her in any way. Once I realizad her mental problems I decided to break-up. She refused to break-up. She even have set up camping outside of my room. I moved to another country just to find out she had followed me there and I made the terrible mistake to go “talk” to her. She even followed me to another continent after 6 months of peace.. It was so crazy. Once she arrived she did everything she could in order to destroy my life, my friends and ultimately my family. I advise man that are in this situation to cut right away. Go to another city where she cant find you. Dissapear from social networks and remember. NEVER look back. Woman with this behaviour are very dangerous. Even years after the rejection they will try to destroy you. I have seen her doing this to her EX. Regards.

  4. very simple way,an eye for an eye…get with some socio-politically strong women in your arena and bang the bitch so that she would never have the nightmares of planning to hurt you. If she dares again, break her completely. All you need in this case,to make your own power.After all,United we stand. and useless fuckbags are always divided, even from inside. Amen.

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